Sara, he used to do romantic things for me so a gesture meaning :I am sorry, I love you, I didnt mean to hurt you, trust me, let's give this a try, would be helpful.
GFI, I was very supportive all these years. I was proud of him, advised him, was always interested in what he does. In the end, (he works 6 days a week including Sun), he was leaving at 9 o'clock in the morning, coming back at 22:00, as family we couldnt go away on a weekend, our vacation was according to his schedule (and not to mine for example, I work too), I was resposnible for the house, the home, the clothes, the bills, the cars, the grocerry shopping, the kids' schedules, babysitters, family (his more than mine), EVERYTHING.I was begging him to take a day off so we could leave just the 2 of us and he would say "no, cant do, you know my work". Not to mention 60-80 days per year travelling. Right now his work schedule is worse. He finishes around midnight so by the time he would get home I should be sleeping because I get up at 7 to get the kids ready, drop them to school and continue to work. We will only have one day, Sat to talk, connect, spend time with the kids, go out, see our friends, our family etc...
That's why I hate his job and anything related to it. That's why I hate football.
