(((((Kalni))))) Secure.... well, I don't know about that. It could go on forever. But, it isn't how I want to live. It is going to change.
OK, a story. I am not a lunatic!
Background..... A month or so ago, S10 accompanied me on a golf "adventure". We stopped at the QuickMart on the way, and got drinks. In identical cups, he got a Doctor Pepper, and I got iced tea. So, we got to the course, the drinks were not done yet, so they went into the cupholders of the golf cart. We did a pretty good job of keeping track for a while. I was letting him drive when no one was around, but now and then I drove. So, it finally happened, I started to take a sip of his DP. OK, so I haven't had a soda for more than 5 months at the time, and I was quite surprised by the taste in my mouth. So, I did the DAM thing to do, and I spat it out on the ground. Perhaps a little disgusting, but there was no one around. Anyway, S10 mentioned that I'd almost had soda after we got home. He was actually proud. W was disgusted, and gave a bit of a lecture about it. Whatever.
Anyway, tonight we went to S10's Fifth grade musical. We had two cars, since I went straight from work. After that we headed to a friends house for their granddaughter's first birthday party. S14 rode with me. S14 and I got on the subject of how I hadn't had a soda for so long, and the subject of the near miss at the golf course came up. He said something like, "I don't get why Mom made such a big deal out of it. It's like she's some kind of control freak."
So there you go!
I've got C tomorrow morning, I will talk about the letter. Later we are having S14's birthday party, I don't know what I'm supposed to be doing, I have not been let in on the secret, if there is one.