hey, next time, maybe don't do any of the house work. ? My H actually does a little more when I'm not doing it...you know, that 90%10% thing, if your doing 90% the other will only give 10%.
or just be direct and say, I've had a long day at work, I would love it if you could help me do the dishes, or whatever it is.
Us women need to be direct with guys...they canNOT read our minds, and we just use our emotions thinking they'll get it, but most the time the don't.
so yes, try to figure out what you need to do that will work for those situations.
(((Nik)))
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
