Hi workinghard!! I'm SOO glad to see you here!!!! I've missed you!!!

In the past, when things have seemed to be getting better with me and my H, I have fallen into the "trap" of expecting things to progress along certain lines, based on the way things have been going.

Wow, can I ever relate to that!!

I come from an engineering type of background, where "A + B = C, which leads to D", on and on. I had everything pretty well "mapped out" on what should happen first, then happen next. A "logical" pattern, all emerging from my expectations of the way things should be. All to my "expectations".

Unfortunately, things didn't quite follow the course exactly as I had planned!

I wasted SOOO much time on looking at the way things were "supposed" to go, according to my "logical" plan, that I overlooked the fact that things were really moving forward. But just not the way that I had "planned".

I'm almost ashamed to admit that I was bordering so much on the "My way, or the highway" mentality, afraid to see that there might be different ways to really look at the situations I was facing, that I lost focus on really solving the problems, and finding solutions.

JJ

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