Yes..I am the one struggling and it us extremely hard to let go. Prior to the affair and March 19th when my husband left, he was a very loyal and faithful person...for 18 years.
Just to clairfy..he has been back and forth with his feelings for 7 months. It is one ongoing affair...he has not cheated on me several times.
Yes I have read the book..more times than I can count. Just because you read something..doesnt necessarily mean it is easy to do..yes..I have failed...at DB and at marriage.