There are times when all of this seems so surreal. Like it sort of comes as a surprise, after my mind has been occupied elsewhere, that H has left for witchy woman. And my first emotional response to that surprise is--wow! that's just absurd! It's kind of unsettling.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012