(((peace))),

sending prayers your way. we have been at this about the same amount of time. It sounds like our H's are pretty much in the same place. My H comes and goes, we are freindly with each other. He says he's not been talking to OW. ? No papers filed. He says he's fine with the sitch. If I want to change it, change it.

I am with you...how long do we let it continue????

best wishes for you
TOH


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!