What is she "missing" about you exactly. If you feel its valid then honor it. Don't go overboard with it all at once. just kinda ease into it. I would be very vague to those types of questions she asks. Don't show her you hand.
In my case I refused to move out when it came to it. I pray it doesn't come to that for you. Even if it does, you WILL be ok and you can keep working on you. Thats one of the things I stood very firm on though.
