Like what? I bought her a Coach purse and a birthday card that isn't mushy but says she's HOT etc. Not sure what exciting thing I could do for her with a 16 yr old in tow.
She's never came right out and said she wants a Coach purse, but she comments all the time about them. Of course, she'll accuse me of stealing the idea from her old boss. About a month ago he told W that he'd bought a Coach purse for his wife and my W exclaimed (to me), WOW, do you know how expensive those are? Thing is, I've been planning on getting her one for about 3 months now. Of course, that idea hinged on where we were in our marriage, but now that it seemed like things were getting back on track I thought I'd go for it. So I'm sure she'll think to herself that I only did it because her old boss did it for his wife.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.