Is this worth saving, or am I only fooling myself?

[kat727]

Ok, just little ole me again. My ex is so far from the person he was I know without a doubt I will be so far gone before he even has an inkling of what he has done. He has taken too much without regard to anyone.

Maybe you don't need to let her go with you this time. Just you and your son having some good old guy time. I gather you not having her come with you will be a 180 and so it will shake her a bit. The earlier you can start shaking them the better.

Look good, see yourself having a great time with your son and don't ask her anything besides kid related stuff. It is hard but very necessary. Trust me. This is stuff I should have done early on when he was sitting on the fence. As time went on I just got madder, sadder and more confused. Let's pull back now and see if we can't keep her feet unsteady under her...ok?

kat