Thanks a lot for the post Dash. I've already told myself that this doesn't mean that I change my course at all. I still do what I'm doing and don't change a thing until it is very evident that I need to. I'm still not going to say those things to her and I will let her come to me for everything at this point.
Thanks for the support and I wish you luck in your situation as well. I'll be posting back later with how our evening went. It should turn out well as we're going to carve pumpkins when I get home.