I dropped by to see how this discussion was going. Congratulations on making great use of this BB and kudos to you JJ for leading this discussion and giving supportive and helpful feedback. I will check in from time to time as I have time, and if I think I have two cents to add, will do so.
Hang in there everybody. Its easy to become discouraged and give up hope. But we each have the power to make things change a little by changing ourselves a little - the way we think about things, or the way we say things or decide not to speak, the way we do things. Remember that small changes start a process that can change everything in the long run. Patience and trust in the process helps. There's lots of support here. Keep your own goals in mind and stay on track for yourself. Don't say or do anything that will have a negative effect on your goal, even if it feels justified. And take care of yourselves. If you are stressed, do some exercise or take a walk or something so you can do this tough DR work.
Good luck.
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