I DEFINITELY think that starting to pursue some more outside interests and activities would be a GREAT place to start!
It's so hard to see what to do at times when we get too wrapped up in the situation. Getting out, "getting a life", and doing things to help "re-create" ourselves is often just what the doctor ordered!
Stepping beyond your roles of wife and Mom, doing things for yourself sometimes instead of always for other, might be what it takes to get your big changes started. It might be what it takes for him to stand up, and take notice of you, and what he may be missing out on if he doesn't stick around!
Got any ideas on where to start this? What are some of your hobbies or interests? Things you've always wanted to do, but have just never taken the time for?
JJ
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