How to treat a WAW when I've stopped chasing her?

[Dash]

I'm sort of in the same boat Alli.

How do we become the walkers? Yet at the same time still show our WAW's that we still want them back?

There must be a mighty fine line in there somewhere.

If I find it, I'll be sure to share it with you, but like so many other things in life I have a feeling it's going to be different for every person.

I'm worried that my WAW will see the "new" me as no longer willing to work on our marriage and this will cause her to detach even more (if that's possible).

I have to keep reminding myself that it's only been three weeks for me and I have to be patient.

Let her come to you (from what I've read), don't pursue at all. But don't flat out ignore her either.

I really hope I can take my own advice on this.

Good luck.

Dash

(Edited for spelling)