My W cried divorce the day I found out about her A. She gave me some BS papers Oct 2nd......she wanted full custody, $1200 per month, 50 grand out of the house.....whether we had it or not and half my annuity. She wanted an uncontested divorce....$1500....that's all she has. She stood in our kitchen and told me......I will make you out to be a child molester if you fight me for custody!

I waited 2 weeks.....threw out her papers.....and filed REAL papers.
In Illinois filing kinda gives you a little control....it also protects you as far as nobody can be forced to leave.....and nobody can take the kids.

I swore I would not file...told my wife I would not file....but I had had enough!!


H 34
W 31
M 11yrs
D 11
D 9

6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage
6-11-08 I found out about OM

7-16thru7-18 she tried didnt work!

8-17 home (just for kids until the end??)