You could have a dialogue about where she is at with intimacy.....if she wants no kisses or hugs then you need to stop trying. Is she talking to a counselor?

Good plan for the weekend. Have fun, you two. Focus on connection...emotional connection. And, be "her man"...make sure she feels like the feminine one, the one that you need to keep safe, the one you can't keep your eyes off of, etc.

I'm new to your sitch so forgive me if I'm way off base at this point.