I havea question about how to treat my WAW? I'm current in the phase where I've backed off 100%. I'm not touching her anymore and I'm not telling her that I love her. So my questions are:
1) Do I also stop with the terms of endearment like Sweetie, Honey, Hon, etc? She uses them on me so should I use them back?
2) How will I know when I should touch her again? Or is it best to wait for her to touch me first in some fashion?
3) I am working on making myself a better person. I'm going to the gym, dressing nicer, making myself smell good, etc. Is it wrong to show some appreciation to her? If so how besides doing the things that I am doing now with the kids, the house, etc? Is there anything that I can do for her to show her that I appreciate her and that to tell her that I still think about her and care for her?
It's kind of wierd to not touch my wife and not tell her that I love here when I have done these things for the past 11 years.
