On forgiveness, thats exactly what I did and I told him so right from the start. It was easy for me to do? Dont know why exactly but I knew that if I didnt The one up above would never forgive me. It really is freeing you once you do that.
X is very secretive when it comes to his plans, always has been that way. If he asked D11 what she thoguht of him getting his own place, its b/c he's been seriuosly thinking about it but doesnt know when he will do it. I didnt think he could afford it really.
OW is and has been 'buying his love'. She has the $. X told me a long time ago the only reason he stays there was b/c he lives there for free. I beleive it in a way for before he use to complaing about our $ issues and how he didnt want the D but to get out of debt including the mortgage.
