Tom, I totally agree. Just read LE's post - man o man - these spouses that push for D for selfish reasons (ie, no abuse, etc) are such, well... I can't even find the right words. I will use one that Sugar and Spice coined - F*cktards!
I am like you. I will not (at least right now) be the one that has to face my kids and say I oulled the pin - at least not until I have tried EVERYTHING I can think of. Some friends tell me I maight be at that point!
Take care bud.
LIS
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No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.