He is married and this is the 3rd time he has done this to his wife. He is 31, 16 years younger than my wife. I am no longer accomodating. As a matter of fact I am boxing up the remainder of her clothes andputting them in an upstairs closet to make room for my winter clothes. I took down all pictures with her in it last night, I mean ALL pictures,

He knows how to play the sympath emotional game to get women to take to him. I alos know his background and history. The two of them have no friends realistically that they can be around. My wife's social life is with him and whatever losers they hang with.

My son talked with his mother yesterday as he had invited her over to his house. He said he didn't think she was going to lasty in lala land much longer, told me he'd talk to me tonight about it. My older D, says she calls her and makes her feel uncomfortable, also told my D that he gives her money for gas for her to drive down and see him, that's a lie. Unless it is recent, her ATM history indcates she is pulling out nickels for gas.

I would like to believe she is at the end of her rope, but I don't think so. She is openly concerned with my kids about the holidays and how things are being planned. She wants to know why she isn't included in any of the decisions or plans. My older D told her that they are what they are and if she wants to attend, great, if not, oh well. She alos told her that I do not want her at my house Xmas morning, she can see my other kids at her father,s or at my ds on Xmas eve.

Just waiting for things to get worse as Amy and Sandi indicated that they probably will before it gets better. If I have seen the worse, then great, but I don't think I have. She will probably have a small unnatural animal when she finds the rest of her clothes packed and stored. I am also sure she will be surprised to find all her pictures are no where to be seen. I have great plans this weekend, probably not as good as yours. I am filling some picture frames of my pics with my kids, my grandkids and my friends from recent gatherings. I am putting them n my office with a bunch of thngs from my Dad who passed away about 4 years ago when everything seemed to be crashing around me. Most likely that was my midlife....Tons of yard work and projects will be concluded this week. If I get the insurance check I have beenwating for tomorrow or Saturday, I am over the hump and on TOP OF MY HILL looking down at my empire....!!!