I agree with Gypsy -- your H giving you his entire paycheck is sooo not the norm.
And yes, it's all likely due to guilt. But don't forget that he could have just continued onward with his blinkers on, and be in complete denial about the impact of what he's done. The WAS is pretty good at rationalizing such things, and passing the blame.
So maybe your H at least has an inkling of a conscious, even if he might just be trying to assuage it for his own peace of mind. Better than nothing, I suppose.
