I asked my W if she still believes in God; which she answered yes. Then I asked her if she still has doubts about being married to me; agin she answered yes.
I apologized for all the times I asked her to work on our M. The apology was b/c I was trying to do God's work; which I know I'm not qualified to do. I told my W to pray to God to help her make a decison about what she needs to do. I told her to ask the Holy Spirit to help guide her. Then I reminded her that I'm okay with any decision either way it goes.