W2S, unfortunately, I am now paying all the bills so I can't stay here too long or else I will be in some serious debt. I am just happy I can buy a little more time and can spend one more Christmas here.

Chicki, I feel like no matter where you live the courts don't seem to hold the cheaters responsible. It's ridiculous and the court system has no morals.

Thanks Mom! I did a little dance around my kitchen I was so excited at the time. It was an instant stress reliever.

Snodderly, Maybe I should get him a mirror for Christmas! You think he would be insulted? Haha!

I do feel much better, thank you!

I went to my lawyers the other day just to correct some stuff in the papers. He showed me the list of stuff that JA wanted and asked if I had any objections to any of it. I didn't. My L and his daughter who started working for him couldn't believe he was asking for his "toy backhoe". My lawyer looked at me and started laughing and said "this guy is unreal. He is 33 years old and wants his toy backhoe back?" I was mortified for him. It was a backhoe that he had when he was growing up and gave to the boys and he wanted to make sure he got it back. It is something he could of just asked me for and I would of given it to him but he would rather make himself look like an idiot and go through his lawyer to get it back.

That's almost as bad as Snodderly's ex wanting his plastic egg back! Snodderly, they really are twins!


Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009