Here here guys, that is my W too. It takes 2 to tango and she would rather do her own thing. LE, well said. I have been having a rough day too and this helped.
Married 6 years D4 D4 S2 seperated: 7/15/08 Dbomb: 9/21/08 status: seperated in same home, meeting with mediator moving toward D current thread