Hey Sara,....I feel you. I always felt like we were a lot alike and had h's with similar personalities and attitudes towards money.
I have a hard time saying no to xh too. Depending on what he needed I am sure if he asked right I would even help him today. You have learned a lot through this and have become amazingly strong. There is a big difference in your posts today and when you first started posting.
As for the high school guy....well, not every R turns into something serious or something we would want to continue. If nothing comes of it then maybe you at least have a new friend.
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Although....unlike many....I now have so much more money than I ever had when I was married! All of that money that I used to spend on my husband is now all mine!
Me TOO!!! I know a lot of people are put in a financial bind with D...but my XH spent so much money that I can't believe how much money I have now and how much debt I have paid off...even after going in the hole with the house sale!
