Well I talked to a couple of different places so far. I had an aha moment and thought I would check and see about credit counseling. If I can get the payments low enough and he actually pays me what he owes me, I might be able to avoid him bringing me down. I will however be responsible for a lot by myself and that is pretty daunting.

My appointment is next Thursday and I will see what I am advised to do. How could I be so blind!! Well, I know, I loved him. But he is gone and I can't mourn his loss anymore because I have to get ready to tackle another mess he is forcing on me. Please let there be no more surprises.

kat


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