Another thing that I'd like to mention is that she stopped playing the game around 10:35 Pm last night. For a long while now her range was minimum of 11pm and a late end of 2:40am when she would quit playing the game.
I've noticed that when we have had talks in the past and she would be irritated, she would have late nights on the game. Now that I've stopped talking about things and have completely backed off from her, it seems that those late nights are slowing down a bit. It could be that I'm watching too close but I'll keep an eye on it and see how things go.
I'm also coming up with questions for my next session with my coach as well at this point.
I'll say some of them here in case someone has some info they'd like to share.
1) Since I've completely backed off from her, how do I know when it would be appropriate to start doing little things for her again like making coffee for her or doing any small little thing that lets her know I'm still thinking about her? Maybe that won't come for a long time and thats ok, but I do wonder that. I would think that I can't back away forever.. Then she would think that I don't care about her and have let her go. I just don't know what kind of time frame that might be.
2) Before I backed off and started with this DivorceBusting program and a coach, I had asked her if she would go to a movie with me. The movie is "Fire Proof" and it was recommended from numerous people that go to church. I told her what the movie was about and she agreed to go last weekend. I know that if I don't bring it up again that she will just let it pass. So I was thinking of getting the showtimes written down and just give them to her and telling her "These are the show times for that movie I was telling you about. They said they think it will end this Thursday so if you're still willing to go see it with me these are the available times."
I'm not sure if taking her to see that movie would be me pushing her to "work it out" and cause her to move away from me more or not. Since she is a WAW, do any women here have any options on this?
