W asked me to lunch yesterday to discuss what we should do with benifits now that she has full time employment. All went well, was fun really, only minor R talk though I did speak my mind on a few things and so did she. Overall it was pleasant enough.
Once I returned to work I realized that it wasnt as good as I thougth. Her attitude is still the same, and she is still just as much in crisis as ever She just has a job now.
More than once she put her own living situation and freedoms over the happiness and wellbeing of the children. Wow, When I realized that she still thought that way I began to understand my place in the heirarchy. (which is far below that of the kids.)
I am almost set for Halloween, and the party on Sat. Should be interesting but I'm just going to have a good time.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08
