...Just catching up on friends MMF... From personal experience..........
My GF has a D 15.
D 15 was extremely upset when my GF left her H. D 15 grades began to tumble but came around again after 6 months or so. To this day her grades ride an up and down wave.
Now on to the nuts and bolts..............
My GF misses her D as though she has died, her D is still very aloof to her mother and will visit infrequently rarely staying overnight. My GF has told me many, many times that she needs her D and would give anything to have her come and live with her. I see how bright my GF is shortly after a visit from her D.......and how low she gets hours after.
My GF thinks that this will all be better when.........
Just like IMA says.
My XW has shown a ton of interest in the kids in the last few months, I know the kids need it and I believe my XW needs it too. I do not believe the increased contact with the kids will do much in the way of her looking into herself so I take it for what it's worth......
It's good for my kids.
Billy
Thanks Billy.
Even though people have different situations, a lot of human response is similar and I can see similar things in play with my D.
It is good to hear from you and I hope life is good to you. You deserve it, my friend. Don't stay a stranger.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
