Hi everyone, All I think you should do the 180 and come home first and then go to the gym, will it be more difficult -- absolutely but if that is one of H's pet peeves -- you need to address it, not point it out and just start doing it. You are on the right track. Just avoid those talks of OW. It is dis-respectful to you.
T2L, as usual you are right. Has H made up with his brother yet? My SIL was shocked and even though I know all of this MLC stuff it is hard to explain. She basically was telling me to stop waiting for him and move on. Hard words to hear.
I have been doing things for myself. Have been spending more time with D15 getting ready for homecoming. We went out last night and bought shoes for her. It is all the girly stuff. I am going once again to the gym at lunch. That is my sanity check. One day at a time. My H e-mailed me the score from flag football last night. I think he sent it because in case someone asked me about it. OW is back today. Don't know if she saw the notice up. hhhhmmmm. No way to check.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
