Although I don't have words of wisdom, I did want to chime in here and say that I think you are an inspiration to everyone here. You and a few others. ( You know you who are ) I think it's GREAT you've found someone who is on the same page as you in the ways that count. Although sex may not be as frequent as you like, I would hazard a guess that you will both find that " happy medium " and both be content because your with each other! That's most of the battle right there. At least this time you know what you want, and how to get it, and your satisfied with the outcome. I think that's fantastic and shows what a true person you both are, and the level of commitment you both have for one another.
I think it's GREAT you've found someone who is on the same page as you in the ways that count. Although sex may not be as frequent as you like, I would hazard a guess that you will both find that " happy medium " and both be content because your with each other! That's most of the battle right there. At least this time you know what you want, and how to get it, and your satisfied with the outcome. I think that's fantastic and shows what a true person you both are, and the level of commitment you both have for one another. 