Well, if someone told me that H should not be included in the holidays, then I feel sorry for that person. And if that person were having marital problems or in a similar situation, then I would have to say that person does not really want their marriage restored.
H has always been here for the holidays since all of this began but this year, he is playing a larger role in them by doing things such as helping D16 with the tree, doing little odds and ends things for me since I seem to be working six days a week, etc. To me, these are little blessings.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
