I think the pleasantness makes it harder sometimes. We want more that anything the stability back for our peace of mind but for now we need to suck it up. Luckily mine does not use the D word and hopefully never will.
She goes to see her therapist next week for the second time, and that always scares me. I worry that she is going to come home and drop the D bomb or tell me that she is having PA. So I am working every day to prepare myself for the worst and take care of me.
Stay strong Jeff and we will all help each other.
Married 10/12/2002 Me 35 Ring On Her 29 Ring Off D 4 S 2 Don't know if I am in love with you 10/7/08 Kinda Separated 10/7/08 EA/OM 6/6/08
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