Yea, both my D and my female retriever are fighting with the mama cat to be mommy to the kittens.
I doing pretty well. Still wrangling over if or when to start the legal stuff. I'm really thinking at this point I'll let her separate if she wants to and let her get a taste of what life is like without me. I still feel like she's using the house as a safety net and she's not really contributing financially to the family so much. She says she's going to buy the kids some winter clothes this week. Hope she follows through; but she's getting that car scot-free right now except for gas. I'm thinking it's time for her to start contributing for insurance and payments. I've already hinted that she will have to pay the property tax and registration on next month.