Talked to my SIL this morning. H called her over the weekend. She could not believe how he was. She tried to talk to him about D15 and how upset she was and about us. H told her this is private between me and my wife and I will not talk to you about this. She said but what about you and your D --- you were so close what are you doing about it and he says I won't discuss it. Then she asked him about who he was dating and he says I am dating noone - I am by myself. She said it was like talking to a robot. She was almost crying. She said I did not even know him. She said I would never say this but I don't think he will ever come back. My SIL said I don't blame you if you get them fired at work! I was shocked. I know it confirms that H is really addicted to OW but for him to turn on his sister I would never believe. H has always been very close with SIL and always confided in her, now he is so wrapped in this that any sense of family is gone. Sad
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
