K,

Read your post on one of my threads. Don't worry about the title of this thread - containing "New Me". I wouldn't want you to change it. Actually I'm glad it caught my eye, as it seems like our mindsets are very similar. Even though, I'm sure we're both experiencing a lot of pain, we can see some profoundness in the situation - an opportunity for great growth - into a new person. It's a HUGE point. It's a game-changer. When I think back to the fear, depression and anxiety I felt when the bomb first dropped, it was not good.

Don't get me wrong, I do not want my M to end, imagine my W with anyone else or share my kids. But we all have a choice on what this chapter of our lives can contain. Will it be a tragic chapter or one ending with hope - with more chapters to come? And a happy ending? I think yes for both of us.

NM


M: 48
H: 42
M: 14 yrs
3 kids
Bomb: 05/21/08
Status: Limbo

my story