in the end...I am the one that asked her to move out...I have to remember that...she had threatened it, but did not act on it until I asked her when she would and gave her a list of stuff to transfer to her name once she did move out...she asked for the list...
Carlos,
It seems to me that you simply honored her request. You took her at her word...she asked you for the list and told you she was moving out. In the adult world people say what they mean and mean what they say. Sometimes adults even have to follow through on something they didn't really mean...because they said it. Sounds like its time for her to put on the big girl panties.