That's the thing I think we have to find that happy medium between the two lessons...like for instance you going away without him suggesting it is a 180 (good in DB terms) now you need to apply the Secret to the same situation. You are going to go away because it will make both you and him happy for the night, you will conscentrate on the positive affect that it will have and what a good day you will have on Saturday because of it. Win/Win
