"Why are things different? Why can we get along NOW?" like I rained on his parade or something.
He actually said that he was ENJOYING being with me the past few nights....
I am not going to turn around and kiss his butt at this point, that ship sailed. I will continue to be friendly and pleasant, (We have parent teacher conferences tonight about S)but I will not touch him, be affectionate, say ILY, etc. I will just be the friendly "Me" I would be to anyone I care about...
I am sure he would expect me, at this point, to start being more needy, clingy, expressing my affection, etc. He probably thinks that if he 'threw me a bone' as they say, by being uncertain last night, that I will hop around him like a puppy wanting more affirmation.
But I am not going to do that. If this were fishing (maybe that will bring Kerry and Woog around!), I would say he is bumping at my hook. If I yank it now, he will be GONE. I won't do that......
I will continue on being the me that he has enjoyed the past few nights (because that IS me), but also being matter-of-fact that I am still thinking I will have to file......
