Doing step #2 from the book "The Divorce Remedy" I have chosen these as my goals to improve my marriage:
1) Spend more quality time with my children and wife 2) Spend more time helping with things around the house 3) Make myself happy through GAL and a relationship with my father 4) Realize the things that make myself and my family happy and embrace those things
I will now move on in the book.. Maybe it will teach me that these goals are not specific enough or I need to change my thought process.
Here is a bit of an update: I told my wife that I have gym tonight because my trainer cancelled on me last night. She said we're doing pumpkins tonight. I said "Oh, I want to be here for that!" not knowing that I was already going to be. She got a snooty look on her face like "You're going to be here..You go to the gym after the kids go to bed you idiot". Now I don't know if she thought that, but that was the look on her face. Kind of a look of disgust or irritation.
Maybe she is irritated that I've completely left her alone and that I'm doing all the things that she has wanted from me in the past. ;-)
