My 29 year old wife going through MLC, this sucks

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Good moring and thanks trapt and SPM for the advice. I got the cry out of me yesterday and was able to put on the happy face when I got home. The W and I are still in the same place. She is being very pleasant but a little distant. Last night was the second night in a row that she made no plans to get away from me. We watched TV together for a while before bed.

This morning was more of the same. She still has been not shy about being naked in front of me after her shower. As I said before, when this started she would cover herself up at all costs. So today is another day, and I will work on PMA and prepare for the weekend. My gut feeling(which has been incredibly correct lately) is that she is going to push hard back when she goes out with her friends, so I am getting prepared now for it.

I still do not call her during the day or text her unless she does first, I act completely as if when she tells me she is doing something or going somewhere. But I know I need to do a better job at some 180's. I have always taken care of her so it is hard to break that. For instance, when she gets home from the gym in the morning, I still make her breakfast sometimes. Is this something I should stop doing? If she needs something from the store I will stop on the way home from work if she asks. Is this something I should stop also?

To me, not doing some of that stuff seems spiteful. And I don't want to act out of spite. I love her and have no problem doing those things. I have already told her that she needs to start paying her cell phone bill(due to going over minutes talking to OM) and also the heat bills(since we are now heating the house more for her new bedroom). She starts working again next week. Things are in an okay pattern right now and I don't want to push to much, but also don't want to stop the momentum.

I hope you all have a great day.