Here comes the sun.

[Dr LOve]

tal,

I guess I am a bit sensitive on the old friends thing. My sister ended up having an A and ruining her M with reuniting with an old class mate.

Saffie don't worry I stopped going down that street...

I know what you mean about being "sensitive" about certain things. I really need to watch myself when "talking to Red or SadM. Since my W did have an affair with a service Person. (Sorry I have a hard time calling him a man) that was away from home supposedly protecting my country but instead helped destroy my marriage.
I guess that is where prejudice starts. EVERYTIME I see a U.S Coast guard sticker or license plate I end up directing my anger towards them.
I guess that is where they say "one bad apple spoils the whole crop"

Hope you have a great day today. I know I will no matter what. I am stuck on the fence right now between showing affection and distancing myself. It's a fine line between becoming a nuisance by e-mailing, phone calls, coming home kisses and hugs and giving space to make our spouses miss us. Maybe they will think we don't care if we don't call or e-mail.
No matter what you do it seems it's not right.
There is the spouse that says.. You never pay attention to me, you are always out with your friends or working that is why I had to find someone else ... Or ... you have the spouse that says you NEVER give me space, you are always hanging around me. You never go out with your friends...

Ok enough venting this morning. Before my "date" I want my wife to know the ONLY thing I want/ask is that we leave the world behind for those two days.. NO work talk, No marriage talk, No kids talk, No sex talk...well... if sex talk come up that's ok but not required..

Well if nothing else comes up 21 more days...My mom is going in for back surgery on the 11th and IF W gets a job at kohl’s I HOPE she tells them that those dates are booked.....

Later

Dr LOve