Hey Trixi, glad youe evening went well.

I remember an earluer post where your H told you that he just needed some time. Now your son has said the same.. so, seems to me that you really need to work on your patience! This could take a while!? Put all thoughts of splitting up, D, moving on, dating out of your mind.. work on looking after yourslef whilst your H works through his issues and feels able to tell you clearly one way or the other that he wants to come back to the M or D. Be patient, give him what he asked for - time?

Ali xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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