Daisy-I would definitely not have the ML expectation at all. Rather, as you said, I'd want to feel more happy and fun, and I have always liked dressing up on Halloween. Moreover it's the only costume that I have. H knows I wore it to another party once when he wasn't there, and has seen pictures. I think especially if I just talked about the female coworkers I was with to make it clear that I wasn't trying to make him jealous, it could be OK.
I'm still feeling nervous about our sitch since yesterday's conversations were 1-line business/errand things. I liked that he called from the airport in Frankfurt, when he could have just sent a text, but there haven't been any pleasantries at all, so I worry he could be pushing me away again. I think in the end I may base my decision on any communication we have today. It's possible he won't reach out at all depending on his work schedule, but if he does, I'll be watching for what kind of communication it is...
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
