The OM is married? AND his W knows what is going on? How old is the OM? Maybe this is MLC meets MLC?

Or maybe this is just an affair. Sounds to me like both you and the OMs wife are being awfully accomodating. I don't think I could do that. For me the choice was made...but you do have a choice.What kind of message are you sending?

Me- 47
W- 45
Married 22 years
Together 30 years
No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat
2005 - 2007 W in MLT
1/08 - Crisis hits
3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA
4/08 W files for divorce
8/08 Divorce final