"And I have found that when I reject him my husband looks unattractive, and when I am loving to him he "shines" brightly and looks handsome. It took me forever, but I do think the butter is on the other side of this bread."
Did I not tell you... all of this (DB'ing) is about "seeing" things with some new eyes.
Maybe I can't walk you thru all the "in and outs".. thats why "others" are here.
Sometimes.. people say the coolest things.. when they just don't know.. what to say.
That all I have to say about that.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.