After taking a step back. My consistency needs work too.
I'm no expert but I think this is the #1 thing women are looking for when they are in confusion about what to do next. they want a man who will stand and be strong, unflappable, like an Oklahoma farmer watching a tornado bear down on his fields. You just weather the storm. You hunker down and then the next day you emerge and get back to work. Solid.
Good things happen and you are glad. But you know that tough stuff will happen to, and for that you are also glad because you know that's life and you're livin' it. Take the good with the bad.
That's what they want. The real life "for better or worse".
They say they don't want you but really somewhere deep down, they do want you to stand.
