My daughter is the only thing that matters. Today I wasn't supposed to pick her up - but my D9 called me to get her so I can help her with her math homework - her mom is not capable of that and D9 goes to mom's school district, but spends most nights with me due to her night job and irresponsible SS18. This is becoming an ongoing issue and my atty tells me to file for physical custody. Right now it's joint physical which is unique.
As far as X having affectionate BFs - that just cracks me up. It only helps to reinforce just how different both me and X have become. But I don't want my daughter growing up thinking that it's OK to do what mom was doing later in life - and I think I'm OK in that area - my daughter is a smart cookie and she usually tells me what's right and wrong on her own. I think I'm doing a good job raising her and steer her right where her mom can't (unfort).
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
