I don't think Dan is Done, but perhaps you need to say to him.

Dan, by you doing this (pumpkin seeds, hay ride etc) I am seeing that you don't want us to split. If that is the case, I need to hear it explicitly from you and THEN we BOTH work at it all over again. On the other hand, if you still want us to split, say so. I am confused.

Hmm..trying to be concise with my replies. I should be working! Not sure if I'm getting my point across.

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As soon as you trust yourself you will know how to live. Goethe