I can't really relax around my wife - just hurt me too much - it's like trying to relax around an electric fence after it's shocked you repeatedly.
Too true - my W has even said to me i'm keeping the door open just in case she comes back.
She's spending the weekend with OM - f****ing tears me apart every time - should be getting used to it by now.
Yeah absolutely i agree completely - there is nothing we can do but let our respective wives decide. I've been pulling all the strings i realise but very subconciously. My w has said "there is nothing you can do or say to make me come back"
I'm just a dog with a bone who doesen't know when to quit.
I'm not doing that well on GAL - this separation thing has really knocked me and i'm bloody depressed. Doing anything is major effort. I was keen kitesurfer but even that requires effort to do now.
Keep your eyes on S6 - my 5 year is handling it well but 8 year old is suffering a bit. I think the younger ones handle it better but also say less so you never know what is going on.
More memories - climbed at Birchems heaps (closest crag). Presume the column must be at Gardoms - i've climbed there but not much.